This year, money is scarce in many families, including ours. As her son has a teenager (13) and our daughter, 15, I scratched our heads on exactly what we need to do for these two teenagers. birthdays. This does not make it easier for both teenagers to have a birthday the same day. The ability to perfect the family's design techniques. Or pick up the coincidence and get closer to what really happened.
In any case, I thought of cheap or cheap gifts, all of which can be proudly "cool". Obviously, there is no easy challenge. But since we can actually spend money for our children to have a birthday celebration, I hope that one day they will discover the special gifts that do not cost money, but they mean a lot more. You can expect at least 7 such gifts, which I can think of in a special order.
first Merry words: these may be words, such as "Thank you". These might be encouraging words: "You can do it, do not give up." What about the words of praise or praise: "You did it great, you look sharp, that is brilliant observation." Reinforcing words: "It's important for our family, it makes a difference in our school, in our company or in our church." How about comfortable words? "I do not know what you want to experience what's going on, but I'm with you, I support you through this. Valuable words: "We could not have missed this." What about humor like a good joke? Or Welcoming Words: Please say "Good Morning" every day you wake up; yes, "Good morning," even to all the people who live in the same house.
2nd You can give your tab at no cost. How? Pay attention. Just listen. It is a caring, worrying and wise thing to hear another person with the empathic feeling that says, "I understand, I care, I know, I want to know."
3rd What do you say to your eyes? This is the gift of attention or eye contact and does not cost you money. Do you know that love is in your eyes? & # 39; A good look can seal the agreement between two people, as one is in love, and the other confirms that the feeling is reciprocal. Your eyes, if blessed with the gift of vision, is a wonderful gift; use them to give a special to a special appearance that results in love, trust, compassion, and the like.
4th An apology: More than just a gift to another person who hurt or hurt you, the free gift of forgiveness cures and rescues you, just as you release your offender. "Forgive you" is one of the strongest sentences a man can tell another to hear. He says he is ready to move on and so does the other person. Forgiveness releases two prisoners, though they may still be different in anger, bitterness, and anger.
5th Presence: This is one of the most underrated gifts in the world. Your presence, just there, would make a lot of difference. Presence differentiates the lives of millions of children. Do you know that a boy can drop school, use drugs and alcohol, engage in sex-related engagement, commit a crime, and be imprisoned simply because his father was not there? Never underestimate the "staying" power. The gift of presence is indispensable for organizations such as a sports team, a church or a company. How good is a team, a church or a company if no one appears if players, members or employees do not participate if they never exist? Participation is only a gift of presence. For those who are religious, one of the beliefs that keep many is a simple promise from the Almighty: "I will be with you, I will never leave you and I will not leave you, I am with you, even the world." Presence. What present!
6th Smile or laugh: Few things communicate "I'm in my team" as a real smile or a laugh. For many years, I've made a point to have a good day. "If the sun is wearing and I have not got the laughter of the sun, I surf the internet until I find a good failure. But most days, I laugh a family member, a friend or even through the phone By the way, laughter relieves the stress and the conditions in your head like you know what By the way, we talk about "laughing" someone, not "laughing" 19659002] 7. Gift of touch: The world's mother Teresas understands the great gift of human touch, a kind kind of gift that can shape the infant's personality in the life of the child as a whole, often touched by a child who never embraces or kisses. The gentle touch of a nurse or doctor may recall or even accelerate the patient's healing process or make a difference between a peaceful death and a traumatic exit. Jesus the rabbi differentials he hired himself from the other religious leaders and thanks to the common people he gave himself rather as a tourist as a separate teacher. He touched epilepsy, leprata, prostitute, hate, and touched his disciples. The touch of Jesus changed his life and made tears in the most lively eyes of men, including Simon Peter, the powerful fisherman of Galilee. Never look at handshake, embrace, empire, kiss on your face or lips as a valuable gift.
We have a small chance to impress our son or daughter with these costly gifts for their birthday. The good news is that because of their parents, we know that these gifts are the ones most remembered after leaving the nest. And thankfully, these dear presentations can be decided on them every day of the week, regardless of whether or not they are birthdays.